Prom After-Party Drinking

Q: There are after-parties following prom. How do you talk to your teen about drinking alcohol, and the risks of alcohol (alcohol poisoning, pregnancy, drunk driving, etc.)? Do you trust your teen following the prom, or escort your teen to an after prom event, like an all night church event?

A: It is best to talk with your teen before the prom about what is planned following the prom.

Following prom, many teens search for a place to hang out. The place is usually someone's home, "parking" at a ballfield, or a group of teens pitch-in money to rent a hotel room. If your teen plans to venture out with friends following prom, it's good to talk about the risks of alcohol and drug use, and ways to overcome peer pressure. It's important to set a curfew.

Telling your teen that they can call you for a "no questions asked" ride home can be a lifesaver. Literally.

You can plan an after-party at your home where teens can have fun in a controlled environment. Your church may offer after prom events. An after-party at Dave & Buster's or another fun venue is an option.

Do you have advice about how to talk with teens about prom issues? What is your teen doing after prom?