Turn My Children Into Cave Children, or Not?
Persuading my kids to eat healthy is no easy task. Could the caveman diet-Paleo Diet-be the answer?
The habit or need for eating hasn't changed for human beings since the beginning of time, but what has changed is what our food has become. There is gluten-free this and that, no fructose corn syrup this, low fat that, no fat, full fat, no soy, only soy, low sugar, and sugar free. What is safe and healthy, and what isn't? What does your body really need and what does it not need? Do foods really affect behavior and allergies? I have no idea. I don't have time to study and research every last changing opinion or scientific nutrition fact. Maybe if we go back in time to the basics of food we can get some answers.
This year my husband and I did a Paleo Challenge for our health. It’s not a diet but a change in eating lifestyle. You basically eat like a caveman. It sounded awful and completely unreasonable. We completed the 30 day challenge, felt amazing, and lost at least 10 lbs and had a 5 percent drop in our body fat composition. It’s a very difficult feeling to put into words. We felt very "clean" and healthy.
The Paleo Challenge goal is eliminating processed foods and anything that early man didn't eat. NO dairy, soy, sugar (other than natural fruits), grains, or legumes. I know that sounds absolutely God awful, but we got creative with recipes and seasonings, and learned to read food labels, and we're hooked.
I'm not a huge fan of cooking. I can do it, but I just don't enjoy it. So, having to make sure that sugar, soy and fructose and other "non Paleo" ingredients weren't in things when I was planning a meal was very eye opening. Sugar is a main ingredient in most things. I was blown away.
I try to feed my kids healthy. With Ethan, my oldest, I was overly anal about letting him have pudding or Jell-O. Usually his dessert was applesauce. I forget when he started becoming such a picky eater, but I catered to it. Weeks of mac and cheese, hotdogs and oranges, chicken nuggets and tater tots, pizza, cereal bars, peanut butter and jelly, Capri Suns, and fruit snacks became my child’s staples. He boycotted anything green or not covered in cheese. As a parent you want your kids to eat so you tend to serve what you know they will eat. (Well, at least in my house that’s how it goes). We have the boys try new things every week. I re-introduce things that I hope they will eventually like. Sometimes we have success, but it’s usually another lesson on how to spit food out discreetly and not comment on just how much you don't like it.
Quinn, my two-year-old, will usually eat one meal a day. I remind myself what our pediatrician said: when they are hungry they will eat; keep offering food, but know that they will not starve themselves.
Given our kids eating history, my husband and I are on the fence about bringing them into our Paleo world. I mean, they are so cave-like as it is that it should be a fairly easy transformation. They are already filthy little beings that would LOVE to run around in nature peeing on every tree, throwing rocks and hitting things with sticks. They have the primal scream down to a science...oh, and their climbing skills are off the charts.
The transformation would mean eliminating, oh, probably 97 percent of the kids' normal foods. Not 100 percent Paleo, but we would definitely like to stay 80 to 90 percent. I don't have a problem with that other than the additional fighting, complaining, whining and crying that will be added to our normal daily dose. I would love for them to feel as clean and healthy as my husband and I do. Not that they have gassy belly’s, joint pain, sleep issues, skin breakouts or really any other noticeable ailments that brought on by non Paleo foods, but it might help their health in other ways. I value my children’s health. I want the best nutrition for them, but I also want them to enjoy the culinary pleasures in being a kid: peanut butter and jelly, cheese puffs, oatmeal cream pies, pop tarts, Jell-O, popsicles, pizza, fruit snacks, gummy bears, pixie stix, lollipops and the list goes on.
The word "moderation" comes to mind. It's got to be the most overused word that parents hear. I was introduced to it when pregnant. Everything was okay if it was in "moderation." Following childbirth, I heard it from the pediatrician. Moderation, moderation, moderation. Can I get my kids to eat healthy and eat crap in "moderation" or will they eat crap and then eat healthy in "moderation"? There is always a dilemma in my house. I guess its evolution!
Is the Paleo Diet a healthy choice for kids? Vote in the poll or share your thoughts in the Comment Box below.
Julia Harris
9:17 am on Thursday, November 10, 2011
I would think the Paleo Diet would be healthy for kids. After all, it includes meat, fish, fruits and veggies. Maybe having a family ice cream night or "sweets" day would help kids transition to a healthier diet.
I have wanted to take the Paleo Challenge, but the thought of giving up cheese and sweets has stalled me. I'm sure if I completed the 30 day challenge I'd feel so healthy that I wouldn't miss it.
Katie Barrentine
4:02 pm on Thursday, November 10, 2011
Julia, those were my biggest worries too. I'm an icecream addict and LOVE cheese. I used avacado to substitute my cheese fetish and berries and and fruit taste even sweeter once you get detoxed from all the processed food and sweetners. I still drink my coffee with only unsweet coconut milk and I was a half and half + 3 lumps of sugar girl. Some of the best tasting food I have ever had is what we ate on Paleo. Just pure food the way its meant to taste!
Julia Harris
8:46 am on Friday, November 11, 2011
You and I share the "half and half +3 lumps of sugar" in coffee fetish, lol. Well, you've inspired me to give it a try. I've never met someone who practiced the Paleo Diet until now. Thank you for this great article!
Katie Barrentine
4:46 pm on Sunday, November 13, 2011
I got inspired from one of my friends in Cali and she challenged a bunch of us in our "Hot Miracle Moms" group to do it. The results were staggering. My husband and I have recruited a lot of our friends too who have also had great results! One tip for being successful is meal prep. To have a bunch of pre cooked things ready to snack on! :) good luck!
Warren Dew
5:09 pm on Tuesday, November 15, 2011
I have a 20 month old who has been paleo since conception. He has hit all the milestones early, but he is quite low on the growth percentiles, which his less paleo older sister is not. I'm not saying paleo has to do with his being on track to grow up as a short genius, but we are worried about the "short" part, as it can be an issue for men.
Julia Harris
8:28 pm on Tuesday, November 15, 2011
That's interesting, Warren. Good question to ask a doctor. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, Children between the ages of four and eight need 800mg of calcium per day and children between nine and 18 years old need 1300mg of calcium per day. You might want to ask your family doctor about this.
Warren Dew
11:42 pm on Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Uh ... one of the issues with paleo is that most doctors highly disapprove of it, so I'm not sure there's a high probability of getting a reasoned discussion on the subject. With respect to the calcium, our pediatrician thinks breastfeeding should be providing adequate calcium, though he's strongly implied that we're going to have to provide dairy when he weans. Humans must have managed some other way before there were domesticated cattle, though.
I'm actually hoping that it's just that breast milk from a paleo mother results in a more extreme variant of the breast fed baby growth curve, flattening out even more and earlier, then shooting back up to "normal" after he weans. Such a growth curve would make sense from an evolutionary perspective: the toddler would stay small enough to carry around conveniently until weaning, then grow rapidly to be able to keep up while walking. Unfortunately, that's likely to be wishful thinking on my part.
Julia Harris
9:28 am on Wednesday, November 16, 2011
I have just started studying the Paleo Diet. My doctor has told me that I need more calcium. I asked him what can be done to boost calcium intake if I decide to start the Paleo Diet. He said, "Chew at least two Tums tablets daily as a calcium supplement," in addition to calcium intake from veggies, etc. I don't know if children can do the same.
I agree that before domesticated cattle humankind survived without dairy products. To my knowledge we're the only mature/adult mammal who drinks milk. There's much debate (http://thepaleodiet.com/faq) in the Paleo Diet community about what the recommended daily intake of calcium should be for children and adults.
Andrew
10:08 am on Wednesday, November 16, 2011
I think the Paleo Diet is fine for kids. The earlier you start them eating right, the quicker and easier the transition will be. Kids tend to pick up habits faster than adults. Also I think it's important to explain to them why they are/should be eating like this rather than just putting food in front of them and expecting them to just eat it and enjoy. There are a bunch of sites that have phenomenal and delicious Paleo recipes that kids would really like in my opinion. CavemanCooking.TV, paleocomfortfoods.com also Paleo Magazine just to name a few. I definitely think it's a good idea to start your kids on Paleo and the 80-90 percent sounds perfect! Good luck with everything!
Katie Barrentine
11:25 am on Saturday, November 19, 2011
I've been meaning to comment Warren. My kids haven't been Paleo but I did nurse both of them (not that I was Paleo then). When my youngest switched over to milk he started to refuse it after 3 months or so. I shared that concern with my pediatrician and he was not concerned. He said as long as he is eating meats and other calcium vitamen rich foods that it was fine. He then made the point that humans are the only ones that continue to drink milk after newborn stage. He was from Europe and had a fabulous philosophy on nutrition and children in general. I believe that if you put 3 pediatricians in a room and asked them the same question you would get 3 different answers. I prefer the pediatrician that guides me and supports me in my gut feeling as a parent! I'm sure your son will catch up and thrive!